I wholeheartedly believe that Boudoir is an amazingly empowering experience that every woman deserves to have at least once in their lifetime! Today, I’ve got 10 secrets to make sure you have an unforgettable sesh! Are you ready?!

#1: You *are* going to be nervous.  

Seriously. Even in just the smallest of ways! Unless you wear lingerie often or in the model industry, you probably haven’t done anything like this before… and you’re not alone. 

I consider this to be one of the most exciting feelings during your experience – some of the best experiences in life come when we push ourselves out of our own comfort zones! Being nervous means you’re growing. Let yourself blossom!

#2: Plan ahead & think about what you want to do to showcase your photos!

Are you giving your boudoir photos to someone as a gift?  Are you wanting to showcase your photos by hanging them on the wall? Or how about leather bound lay flat album he will keep in his nightstand? Or even a man heirloom box of all your favorite images printed out.

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#3: Try on your outfits at home. 

Make sure all of your pieces fit! And one of the biggest tips ever… make sure all tags are removed. Bring any and all wardrobe items that you love and that make you feel sexy. If you are having trouble picking outfits, bring them all, we LOVE to help choose was will really make your photos everything you’ve wished for!

#4: Personalize your shoot. 

Bring fun or sentimental props to personalize your boudoir shoot and make it a little more *you*. How about a special blanket you bought on vacay or the heirloom necklace you wore at your wedding? Bring anything that makes the shoot special for you! We’ll incorporate it one way or another!

PS- less is more. Don’t over-do it with the props! After all, we want the main focus to be YOU.

#5: You don’t have to bare everything. 

An off-the-shoulder sweater can be just as sexy as a lingerie set.  Your photographer will know how to make anything you bring look great on camera. You do not have to be nude for your photoshoot, as that is a huge misconception when it comes to boudoir. Be comfy if that’s what makes you feel good!

#6: Get your hair + makeup done professionally.  

Many boudoir studios offer hair + makeup as part of your boudoir experience (we DO) – if your studio of choice does, then definitely take advantage of those services… you won’t regret it!  But, if you find that your photographer does not offer this, then we definitely recommend going to your local salon to get these services done beforehand for that extra glamorous look!

#7: Secret Boudoir Session?

Get your lies ready babe. Not that we support lying… but you might be wanting to keep this boudoir shoot a surprise. Will your significant other be wondering why you’re coming home with your hair and makeup professionally done? You can say that you and your girls needed a day at the salon! Or that you’re trying a new makeup brand! We’ve got all the tips on how to keep it a secret until you’re ready to share!

#8: Hire a Photographer that you trust. 

Getting boudoir photos taken is a very personal experience, so you want to go with a photographer you trust. Always read online reviews + talk to the photographer about any concerns that you may have, and don’t be shy about asking ALL of the questions! 

This is an absolute MUST and if you feel nervous, you’ll look nervous in your final images.

#9: And then trust your photographer!  

After you’ve booked your shoot, take a deep breath + let your photographer take control, we know exactly what to do. We know how to pose + light you to get the most flattering images. Trust your photographer + their artistic vision, but never be afraid to speak up if you have ideas of your own! 

#10: Make plans to go out after your session! 

Do something fun the night after your session– you’re going to look gorgeous and feel so empowered – don’t let that amazing energy go to waste! Plan a date night or go out with the girls, whatever you do, make it exciting!

I truly hope that this helps make your session the most unforgettable Experience! 
Whether you choose me, or another photographer… know that you deserve this.

xo,
Billie

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If you’re thinking about booking a Boudoir Experience, you probably have a ton of questions, totally normal… One of your biggest questions might be about how much skin you’ll want to show, not only in front of the camera but to a complete stranger at that. To me, this makes complete sense! As unique individuals, we all have varying levels of comfort in sharing our bodies with others. And as a boudoir photographer, I 100% understand this!

A HUGE part of my job as your boudoir photographer is to take photos of you that reflect this very personal decision of how much skin to have exposed during a session. Some of my clients feel totally comfortable baring it all for their photos + other clients are much more modest and feel sexy just as they are in their own t-shirt or oversized sweater.. As far as I’m concerned, both ends of the spectrum (+ EVERYTHING in between) is perfect. And at the end of the day if there is one thing that I can say without any hesitation about boudoir photography, it’s this: boudoir photos are real + all about you. You get to choose what feels right for you + how much skin you decide to bare is just one of those decisions. What to wear, how much make-up to apply, whether or not to tan, how to pose, how much of yourself you share with the camera are all decisions that are based on your very own personal preferences. And trust me, I wouldn’t have it any other way. 

Having boudoir photos taken by a professional + reliable photographer isn’t a cookie-cutter experience. Each session is as unique as the clients I work with, + just as no two people are the same, no two sessions are the same. Your job as a client is to tell me how much of yourself you want to share + my job as your photographer is to listen to your wants and needs and give those to you in your photos. 

Are you ready to figure out how much skin we are showing today?!

I truly hope that this helps give some clarity and comfort in regards to your Boudoir Experience! If you have any questions, we’d love to help you!

xo,
Billie

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Q: Think deeply for these questions… Why did you choose to do a Boudoir Session?

A: I originally chose to do a boudoir session after seeing a friend of mine radiate after her own session. She couldn’t speak any higher of Billie, and then we saw her photos!

Q: What were your thoughts before booking the Boudoir by Billie Experience?

A: I was nervous - I thought I’d get awkward photos and look completely ridiculous. How could this possibly be a positive experience?! I’m thankful there is no refund because that ensured I showed up ;)

Q: How did you feel BEFORE your session V.S. how you felt DURING / AFTER the Experience?

A: Before I totally suffered from imposter syndrome. I felt a bit like a nerd! And after.. well, after I felt like my inner goddess had been unleashed! Billie brought out a confidence in me I never thought possible!

Q: How did you feel when you saw your photographs for the very first time?

A: No way that is ME!? I cussed a lot. I laughed. And I cried. Because Billie captured the goddess - she saw it before I even realized I had finally stepped into my own skin.

Q: What was your favorite part about the whole EXPERIENCE?

A: This is hard. I want to say the confidence piece, but I think it’s the friendship and community that came as a result. These women are so uplifting and positive. I thought I was walking away with stunning photos of myself, captured by a queen but I received so much more than that. I found a space where women support and encourage one another.

Q: Did a boudoir session with Billie change the way you see yourself?

A: YES! So much so that I’ve already been to her twice! I have no intention of stopping, either. Billie’s ability to capture confidence behind the camera is truly incredible - but it’s her ability to make it walk out of the studio with her clients that is miraculous. The experience was therapeutic and exhilarating! Every time I leave, I have a better understanding of me. And there’s no price I’d put on that. Invest in yourself. Billie helps you do just that.

Q: What do you say to anyone thinking about booking a session?

A: Book it now and figure out the rest later! You found Billie for a reason - embrace the new version of you that is about to unfold! It’s the ultimate self love. From Billie and Marisa welcoming you with the biggest hugs to finding your groove behind the camera (trust me - you will!!), this is an opportunity to sit with your best self. Billie makes it entirely too easy to treat yourself to a lifetime of joy and confidence. You owe it to yourself to experience this!

THANKS FOR READING THIS BOMBSHELL’S FEATURED SESSION!

Your love & support makes this community so amazing & uplifting! You’re appreciated.

xo,
Billie 

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